Has this query ever crossed your mind? Why is it that women dump men? Time and time again you’ll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. It’s puzzling, seeing as he treated her well and it seemed that he really worshipped her.

Did you ever hear that line “Nice guys finish last?” Well, there’s a little truth to that statement. Many women aren’t as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. So, if you seem to be head over heals in love with her, she’ll wonder what’s wrong with you.

Does every female have that view? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they’ll expect to be treated well or they’ll get out of the relationship. But Many women subscribe to the “grass is always greener” mentality. The man of their dreams could be the next one they meet.

What happens when a lady ends the relationship for no reason? The number one rule is NO CONTACT, not by phone, email, or in person. Blinded by her own selfishness, she was unable to see what you had to offer.

Get back to your life quickly, don’t let the devastation grow. Get out of the house, see your friends, and its okay to start dating again. Dating can be a beneficial way to find a woman with the confidence to appreciate who you are.

The real question you need to ask yourself is if you really want to be in a relationship with an insecure woman? Think about it? Is she really worth it? If you absolutely think she’s the one, then you need to give her a lot of time and space to grow up. Fixing a relationship is always possible if the trust is still there.

It’s fairly likely that she’ll call you if you haven’t called her in awhile. Be friendly, but aloof. Don’t share much about your life. And don’t ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. The idea is to give her time to realize that you ARE the man of her dreams.

Now it is simple, she will have to earn your time and affection. Be the one who is chased rather than the chaser. If she gets a hold on you while playing hard to get, don’t go “all in,” reserve a little. If you are really nice she may not know what to do so don’t be too open.

Did you hear me tell you to mistreat her? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. If salvaging your relationship is what you want, here are the steps that may help restore your happiness.