How do I know what women are looking for in a man? I am qualified to answer this because I am a woman, and I have found a wonderful man. I have had many men in my life over the years, and unfortunately they were not good enough to keep around. However, the one I have now is definitely a keeper! He has certain qualities that make him a keeper, and these are all good examples of what women are looking for in a man.

The top quality that makes my man a keeper is that he is a man’s man. He isn’t overly macho. He can be extremely masculine while still respecting women. He comes home and treats me with the love and respect that I deserve after spending all day hanging out with the guys.

A man’s man doesn’t have to wine and dine you - but he should! He should be sensitive to your feelings, desires, and needs. He should do what ever it takes to make you feel loved, like holding your hand or making you dinner.

Beyond this respect and sensitivity, woman want to be valued. A man’s man like mine should ask for his lady’s opinion, and he should take it seriously. He should be able to engage in serious, intelligent conversation with his woman.

Having ability to value and respect women is wonderful. But along with all of the qualities of a true man’s man comes intellect. What good is asking for my opinion if you don?t understand what I say? We must be able to engage in quality conversation.

A true manas man must be fluent in the many languages of love. He should not only know how and when to do all of these things - he has to actually DO them: buy you gifts, touch your hand, share his feelings, spend quality time with you, and provide a ’service.’

A real man’s man has to be in touch with his feminine side. He can not be scared of loosing touch with his identity, as he needs this feminine side to help guide him in reaching out and touching yours.

So, what are women really looking for in a man? We are not looking for Mr. Macho, you can keep him; or Mr. Right who does not exist. We are looking for that one man who knows how to make you feel like a woman, and does.