Plenty of lonely hearts are looking for love Online. The problem is, many are frustrated and disenchanted with the process. People are either meeting the wrong people or worse, they are not meeting anyone at all. Some are turning to specialized Online Dating Coaches, like Chaszey Sandhriel.

“The number one reason why people are not getting results or at least the results they expected, is because they are not putting their most authentic Self into their profile. They withhold themselves or worse, lie, and then they wonder why their contradictory profile is giving them wishy-washy results.” Chaszey says. “Every successful results-driven online profile is packed with honesty, strength and the clear picture of who you are and who you truly want as a life partner.”

A successful profile can be put together remembering these three important steps:

1. A successful screen name When we first create our screen names we forget that the screen name we choose communicates poems, or not, to people who will be looking at our profile. Screen names like “TiredofmyJob,” “WhoseYourDaddy,” “WorshipMe” will not get you the results that you’re looking for, no matter how great your personal profile reads. Pick a screen name where people cannot read between the lines trying to figure out what you’re trying to communicate with it.

2. Photos that work “I look at dozens if not hundreds of photos a day and I am amazed at the choices people make when they upload their photos to the Internet. They don’t realize that their main photo is leaving a first impression,” Chaszey says. Most of your photos, especially your main photo, should not cover your face with sun glasses or a baseball cap. This is not the time trying to impress and communicate to your potential partner that you’re a football fan or a baseball fan. Photos that work show your face and your eyes clearly. Include a variety of photos ranging from headshots to full body shots (even if you’re overweight or uncomfortable).

3. Your profile Be concise, authentic and open when describing yourself. I have talked to many men who told me that once they went out on a first date, they discovered that the profile of the woman they went out with was actually written by a girlfriend, who meant well, I’m sure. However, it left these men wondering who they really were on a date with and they lost faith and trust. I cannot stress how important it is for you to get clear about who you are and for you to accurately state who you are and what makes you tick in your profile. You are not trying out for an essay contest, you are communicating to the world that you are ready to find your true love and you are calling him or her to you with your profile. This is the time to be downright honest with yourself and the world so that you have a chance to attract a person who knows who you are from the beginning.

4. Be clear when describing the partner you want to attract to you Most people are asking for someone with qualities that they themselves have not mastered yet. Your spouse just dumped you because you cheated and now you make it clear in your profile that you’re looking for someone honest and loyal. It’s a contradiction. Once you get clear with who you are and you’re able to truly look at every aspect of what has created you, then you can honestly and open-eyed look at the person you want to attract to yourself. Only when you can get crystal clear with who you are can you can ever clearer with whom you want.

The Nation’s number 1 Online Dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel, is available on a case-by-case basis to help clients produce amazing results with their online dating experience. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.