I’ve seen it happen many times. Everytime some friend breack ups with her girlfriend, they fall to pieces and fall to the usual steps: call her day and night, get drunk and call her at 3 am saying how sorry they are, following her around the city and try to find out what she is doing or who is she seeing. All these only make them look patetic and needy. Let me put three easy steps to take that can pad the way to get your ex back.

1. Call the ex and let her know you agree to the break up and wish her well. Now before you go crazy, hear me out! What you’re doing here is using reverse psychology to give the ex the impression that you’re over her and have moved on.

You know this isn’t true, but your ex will feel attracted to you again because she will think that she can’t have you have. Just a little reverse psychology. If she call you, just remain calm and cool. You will notice how she changes whenever she has to call you or receives a message from you. Do not ignore her, but just act cool. You’ll see the magic of this technique work a couple of days after.

2. After you have called to tell her that you agree about breaking up, wait some time to call her again. The more you wait, the more her interest will rise, so don’t rush things.

If she thinks you are not interested in her anymore, she will see that you are confident and secure in yourself. This will make her wonder why she let you go and make her think of you.

3. Keep the impression that you’re not interested going. Even if the ex does call you and claims that she wants to get back together, don’t just jump right in, keep the hard to get, independent and not interested vibe going. So even if she does call and asks to meet up, agree to it, but if she tries to make a move, keep away from it, resist and act as though you aren’t interested. Trust me, this will build up and she will want you even more.

With these simple steps you have arisen her interest and she will be more receptive when you start your real plan to win your ex girlfriend back.