by Vin DiCarlo

Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″ kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

But first, let’s go waaay back…

When I was in high school, there was this girl in my class who was perfect.

She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t look away)…

She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.

We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).

I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom… but at the last minute I chickened out.

It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…

Ah, the unreachable “10,” a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.

I have a lot to say about so-called “10’s.” In one sense they are another “breed” of woman, but at the same time, it’s that kind of thinking that makes them so.

To help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself, you need to understand you own fascination with female perfection, and understand the reality behind extremely beautiful women.

First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.

The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true “10″.

The world is full of 10’s, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.

Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.

Why?

Because almost all men do that.

The girl knows what you are about and she sees you as a shallow guy.

But there definitely are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.

As what I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”

Let me explain it.

You shouldn’t treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.

First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.

A woman wants to be appreciated for her personality above anything else.

Now for the benefits of yours, I’ll give you a heads up.

There are two types of “10’s.”

Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.

The common type is the low self-esteem 10’s. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn’t EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.

May sound harsh but I call it like it is.

These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.

Anything.

(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

Now high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite -they realized early on that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they made an effort to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.

Usually HSE 10’s are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

In fact, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here’s the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

The Attraction Code is about being the best man you can be, being a “male 10.”

You’ll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.

Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to you and you’ll get an odd responses from them- that is because they know they’re not on your level - I call this as Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently…you’ll be amazed to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”

She thinks to herself, “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are lot of 10’s out there waiting for you.

Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.

Vin

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