Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.

“Doofus dad” syndrome is another societal factor that I’m going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.

This leads to the perception that women are “better,” and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.

You will feel obligated to give a woman a LOT OF TIME if your time is not so valuable.

But here’s the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.

I realized this after analyzing tons and tons of dates I went on with women.

After a while I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but my FULL ATTENTION.

Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.

Now my women can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”

You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me, and women can’t be pulled to what they already have.

I don’t recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.

No need of games, just be real with the girl - and don’t spend more time that you want.

Be a man on the go - focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women.

Now it requires that in a short span of time that you can be able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to take up in another newsletter.

It’s not good to see that men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” girls, and then they are left out ALONE.

Remember that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.

It doesn’t mean that you can “keep” the women if you invest all your time with her.

One more thing here - if you start being honest with the amount of time you are willing give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.

Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.

You see, if you are following your true path, it will usually stray from the social norm.

You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.

That is why I discover and develop the Attraction Code. You can learn about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ deep within.

And no, we don’t try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you’ll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.

Vin