Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.
“Doofus dad” syndrome is another societal factor that I’m going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This will bring to the idea that the time of the women is more valuable than men because of the perception that women are “better.”
You will feel obligated to give a woman a LOT OF TIME if your time is not so valuable.
But here’s the thing - if you are giving a girl too much time, you will end up not present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.
I realized this after analyzing tons and tons of dates I went on with women.
After that I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but with my FULL ATTENTION.
Not only did this make our time better, it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
Now my women can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”
Women can’t be pulled to what they already have. You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me.
I don’t recommend playing games with girls and you pretend to be busy or whatever. In reality, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
No games, just be real with her - don’t spend more time that you want.
Focus on your personal goals, and enjoy whatever free time you have with women. Be a man on the go.
Now this requires that you are able to meet a lot of women in a short amount of time, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.
It makes me sad to see men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
Remember that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
You can’t “keep” a woman by investing all your time with her.
Another point that I want to give - when you start being honest about how much time you’re going to give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It’s either a girl will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.
If you are following your true ways, it will usually from the social norm.
If you are in the habit of adopting the values that others try to impose onto you, you will probably experience some tension, guilt, discomfort, even loneliness at first.
That is why I discover and develop the Attraction Code. You can learn about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ deep within.
And no, we don’t intend to impose our goals to you. I think you are capable enough to handle it to yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin
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