I know you have scene it before. A woman walking with a man with a big belly, short, and bald. She seems to be younger then him. She even seems to be in love with him. How could this be? How can you do this?

One of the issues that most men have to deal with is the fact that they are simply average in terms of looks. For some of us it gets even worse then average. Some of use are down right ugly. But why would a woman date a man like this?

Reason #1: He doesn’t believe he needs to be good looking

Good looks are really nothing more then a bonus. Ugly guys understand this. They know that they will never be good looking. They work on the many other areas that allow them to attract women. They simply make the most of what they got.

Good looking guys think that woman want them for their good looks. They think that being good looking is enough. Those good looks only carry them so far. Those good looks wont make up for any other character flaws.

Reason #2: She likes who he is

Just about all women like guys who like her for who she is. This also works the other way around. Almost all women like a guy who she is attracted to for who he is. She doesn’t like a guy for what he does for her. She is attracted to men who make her feel good.

If you try to buy her with money, drinks, flowers, and other things you will rob her of this feeling of being attracted to you. She will feel like you are trying to force her into liking you. Women like it when it feels more natural and as if it was just meant to be.

Reason #3: Ugly men have a confident attitude

Ugly men have a really great and positive attitude. They don’t come up with a long list of reasons why women wont like them or don’t want them. Most men make things up like “I’m not very good looking.” “Women don’t like guys like me.” Ugly guys never say stuff like that.

Ugly men don’t think like this. They surround themselves with positive people and have a great attitude. “I have so much to offer a woman.” “There are so many great women to meet.” “Witch girl should I approach first.” This attitude allows them to go after what they want and to feel good about themselves.

Reason #4: Ugly men enjoy being men

Women are attracted to men who are masculine. In many cases these ugly guys demonstrate masculinity better then some of the good looking guys. Sure some of these guys look great, but if they don’t bring any masculine traits forward it would be like dating a woman instead of a man.

Reason #5: He is honest about who he is

Women wonder about all of these nice guys. Is he always this nice? Why is he this nice to me? What is he trying to hide from me? What does he really want from me?

Ugly men do not demonstrate that type of behavior. They put themselves out there for her to see. She will trust this man more because she knows who he really is and what she will get from him.