To learn to control your premature ejaculation, you have to understand what it is really all about.

You may think I’m making things more complicated than they need to be. After all, isn’t just coming too fast?

The truth is, it may vary a lot from man to man and their experience how quickly or long you can last to consider yourself to suffer premature ejaculation.

For example, when men only last for five seconds (this is honest truth) they will given anything for only holding off for five minutes.

And the fact is that most men will never last more than three minutes their whole life. So if you compare your self to the average man, holding off for more than three minutes would not be considered premature ejaculation.

But then reality kicks in. Average woman needs at least 15 minutes to climax. So if the average woman has sex with the average Joe… well you do the math.

But you know very well that this is a problem in your life…

I’m only letting you know, you’re not alone. Most men in this world suffer from this problem. This is indeed the most widespread sexual problem on earth.

You’re actually doing better than most men, because you’re the exception that is doing something about this problem. And that will eventually make you into a good lover.

All this means that you are now one of many who has this problem, but after you cure your prematurity you will become one of few who can last forever.

I wish I had known this when I was in my deepest dark shame, it would defiantly have lightened up a little.

But even if you know that many other men can’t control their ejaculation, this is still a problem.

My strong believe is that we were all created by nature to have long lasting, satisfying sex and for both partners to be happy and satisfied.

My testimonial about this comes both from my own experience where my sexual love life went from being totally hellish…

… to being heavenly today. And even more from all the emails I’ve gotten from couples who share similar experience as I have.

The brutal truth is that if you put out the energy and effort to heal your premature ejaculation, you’re almost 100% guaranteed to succeed. Thousands of men have done it before you.

So after going through my own experience and studying this for a long time, I’ve reached the conclusion that even if so many men suffer from this condition, it’s not the natural way to be. It’s more like a flue.